The Best Academy In The World….That No One Has Heard Of
I truly believe that the best
things in life happen when people follow their hearts and are willing to be
unreasonable. I experienced the truth of
this statement for the umpteenth time last Saturday.
The story begins in Phagwara,
Punjab a few weeks back. I was having a quick lunch with my friend Sanjeev
Parmar who happened to be in India visiting family and checking in on the
coaches and players at YFC Rurka Kalan. He is one of the most incredible youth
football coaches I have ever met and currently runs a successful Academy in
Ottawa, Canada. We have been meeting regularly over the past few years during
his annual visits to India and I know that on one of these visits I will
convince him to move here full-time to support the development of the
game. During our south Indian lunch, I
quickly mentioned that there is a wonderful football Academy run out of a slum
that I’d love to take him to. I had already moved on to the next topic when he
said that he would take an early train to Delhi so he could run a session for
the Academy players before he had to catch his flight to Canada.
A couple days later I was in
Ahmedabad, Gujarat where I flew to surprise my parents and brother who were
visiting from the US. My flight got in a
bit early and I decided to meet a friend of a close friend at his office. Neil
Patel is similar to me, an Indian who grew up in California and chose to move
to our parents’ childhood country for professional, personal and spiritual
reasons. Although his core business is technology, his passion is clearly
contributing to youth through football.
During our meeting, he spoke proudly about the football program he is
running for a local NGO. At the end of
the meeting, he mentioned he would be in Delhi the next week and I said that I
would love to take him to a special Academy, of course he accepted.
Then a few days later I was back
in Delhi and my friend Saamya mentioned that she has been looking to do more in
her life. She is a yoga therapist by profession and has had the strong urge to
begin introducing the benefits of yoga to NGOs around India. She requested that
I let her accompany me the next time I visit an NGO so she could speak with the
program director about yoga.
Fast forward a few days and it’s
a blistering cold Saturday afternoon and me, Sanjeev, Neil, Saamya and my
driver, Samir, are driving through West Delhi to visit My Angels Academy. When
we arrive, we walk past the barren land/public slum toilet which makes me
cringe each time I enter the slum. We meander
through the dirty, crowded lane past the slum dwellers, down some stairs to get
to the Academy clubhouse. Once we enter, everything changes; 50 clean, smiling
and loving children gently push their way forward to shake our hands and make
us feel welcome in their home. It feels
like you enter heaven after experiencing the hell above.
We spend the next hour listening
to the man and the heart behind the Academy, Sylvester Peter, share what makes
My Angels Academy the special place that it is. Within just 10 seconds of being
there, it is clear that the Academy is driven by love and logical discipline
(quote from Sylvester), but first love.
Sylvester treats each Angel as his own child and the Angels love
everything: themselves, each other, dancing, learning, adventuring, and,
especially, football. The discipline
comes in as they all work together to ensure there is proper structure and
reporting taking place each day to assist their own growth and development. We were all amazed by what we learned while
sitting inside of the clubhouse; it was management and leadership at its best lived
and enforced by individuals who have never had formal training in either.
We leave the clubhouse and walk
about a kilometer to the ground for a short training session. Sanjeev brilliantly keeps all 50 Angels
engaged for one and a half hours ensuring they are having fun and learning some
basic football skills. I told him later that I was a bit concerned in the beginning
seeing so many kids of different ages and playing abilities and so few balls
and bibs, however Sanjeev is an expert and blew us all away with his energy,
quick transitions, sense of humor and caring nature. Neil was pitching in and taking notes the
whole time seeing what exercises he could bring into his program in Gujarat
while Saamya played with the girls and started exploring all the songs, dances
and yoga asanas she could teach the Angels.
After plenty of pictures, hugs
and a lot of warm tea we finally hopped in the car and headed back to my house. Our faces were glowing, hearts full of warmth
and heads spinning with what more we can do for My Angels Academy. Beyond that, we all felt so connected to each
other, like we had been friends for years.
I’m clear that the type of love, discipline
and organization seen in My Angels Academy is better than what can be found in
most Academies in the world. With literally no resources, Sylvester has
transformed children disguised as ragpickers, drug addicts and thieves into
mature, loving human beings, not to mention fantastic footballers. I feel blessed that Sylvester and the Angels
are in my life and that all I need to do is take a drive out to West Delhi to
get a glimpse of the power and transformational qualities of love and football.
Neel,
ReplyDeleteThank you for posting this lovely writeup. It really brought me back to that magical day. It was a true blessing to meet Sylvester and the Angels. But I am equally grateful to have met you, Saamya, and of course Sanjeev. You all inspire me so much, and I'm proud of how you have been able to follow your dreams in such a genuine and heartfelt way.
Rock on brother!